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Creativity Quote by Shannyn Sossamon

"But I'm trying not to be cynical - I don't want to be one of those people who has a cool opportunity and blows it. It's really amazing what's happening to me"

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Cynicism shows up here not as a philosophy but as a self-sabotage reflex: the pose you adopt when you’re terrified you won’t deserve what you’re getting. Shannyn Sossamon frames it as something you “try” not to be, which is telling. Cynicism isn’t a thoughtful critique in this line; it’s a habit, almost an addiction to pre-emptive disappointment. If you roll your eyes first, you can claim control when the dream wobbles.

The phrase “one of those people” does a lot of social work. She’s sketching an industry archetype: the talented person who gets a rare opening and then ruins it out of pride, boredom, or a need to prove they’re too cool to care. It’s a quiet rejection of a certain late-90s/early-2000s cultural script, when detachment read as credibility and earnestness could feel embarrassing. Sossamon’s voice pushes against that. She’s trying to stay present, to not confuse defensiveness with taste.

“Cool opportunity” is almost comically understated, which makes the last sentence land harder. She can’t quite name the scale of it without feeling like she’ll jinx it, so she downshifts into casual language, then lets the awe slip through anyway: “It’s really amazing what’s happening to me.” That pivot is the emotional core: gratitude fighting with fear.

The intent is pragmatic and personal: protect the moment by refusing the armor. The subtext is bigger: in creative culture, cynicism often masquerades as intelligence, but it can also be a way of opting out before you’re tested. Sossamon is choosing risk over cool.

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Sossamon, Shannyn. (2026, January 15). But I'm trying not to be cynical - I don't want to be one of those people who has a cool opportunity and blows it. It's really amazing what's happening to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-im-trying-not-to-be-cynical-i-dont-want-to-171028/

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Sossamon, Shannyn. "But I'm trying not to be cynical - I don't want to be one of those people who has a cool opportunity and blows it. It's really amazing what's happening to me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-im-trying-not-to-be-cynical-i-dont-want-to-171028/.

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"But I'm trying not to be cynical - I don't want to be one of those people who has a cool opportunity and blows it. It's really amazing what's happening to me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-im-trying-not-to-be-cynical-i-dont-want-to-171028/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Shannyn Sossamon (born October 3, 1979) is a Musician from USA.

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