"But in my college years it got to the point where my friends and I didn't do anything without consuming a massive amount of alcohol before we went anywhere or did anything, and you know that"
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The specific intent feels less like sensational memoir and more like demystification. By anchoring it in “college years,” he points to an institutionally sanctioned petri dish where bingeing can pass as bonding, and where pre-gaming becomes the toll you pay to enter any social space. The line “didn’t do anything without” is doing the heavy lifting. It suggests alcohol wasn’t an accessory to fun; it was the engine that made ordinary life tolerable, even imaginable.
As an actor, Coleman’s phrasing reads performative in a revealing way. It’s conversational, a little defensive, shaped for an audience that might recoil unless he invites complicity. “You know that” functions like a spotlight in reverse: rather than exposing him, it implicates the room. The subtext isn’t only “I drank too much,” but “we built a world where you had to.”
Contextually, it lands in a moment when we’re more fluent about addiction as infrastructure: peer pressure, anxiety, social scripts, the economics of nightlife. The quote’s power is how it makes the dependency feel less like a dramatic spiral and more like a schedule. That’s the unsettling part.
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| Topic | Friendship |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coleman, Jim. (n.d.). But in my college years it got to the point where my friends and I didn't do anything without consuming a massive amount of alcohol before we went anywhere or did anything, and you know that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-in-my-college-years-it-got-to-the-point-where-156395/
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Coleman, Jim. "But in my college years it got to the point where my friends and I didn't do anything without consuming a massive amount of alcohol before we went anywhere or did anything, and you know that." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-in-my-college-years-it-got-to-the-point-where-156395/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But in my college years it got to the point where my friends and I didn't do anything without consuming a massive amount of alcohol before we went anywhere or did anything, and you know that." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-in-my-college-years-it-got-to-the-point-where-156395/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




