"But it all comes down to friendship, treating people right"
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Banks trims life to two plain-spoken virtues and, in doing so, sneaks a philosophy past the sports cliches. “But” is the key tell: it implies a long list of things people think matter - stats, money, legacy, headlines, the grind of competition - and then calmly overturns it. What’s left is disarmingly small: friendship, decency. Not “winning.” Not “greatness.” Not even “hard work.” That restraint is the point. Banks is arguing that the real scoreboard is social.
The pairing of “friendship” with “treating people right” also exposes a quiet ethic of reciprocity. Friendship isn’t just warm feelings; it’s a practice, a set of repeated choices. And “treating people right” is pointedly non-glamorous: it’s clubhouse behavior, travel-day patience, how you talk to the rookie, the vendor, the beat writer. In a culture that loves the myth of the solitary star, Banks frames character as relational - you are, essentially, how you make other people feel around you.
Context matters: Banks became a symbol of optimism for the Cubs, a franchise defined for decades by frustration. That makes the line feel less like moralizing and more like survival advice. If you can’t guarantee triumph, you can still choose community. The quote functions as a brand of leadership that doesn’t bark orders; it sets a tone. In modern sports, where celebrity can tilt toward entitlement, Banks offers an older, sturdier kind of cool: be excellent, yes, but be human first.
The pairing of “friendship” with “treating people right” also exposes a quiet ethic of reciprocity. Friendship isn’t just warm feelings; it’s a practice, a set of repeated choices. And “treating people right” is pointedly non-glamorous: it’s clubhouse behavior, travel-day patience, how you talk to the rookie, the vendor, the beat writer. In a culture that loves the myth of the solitary star, Banks frames character as relational - you are, essentially, how you make other people feel around you.
Context matters: Banks became a symbol of optimism for the Cubs, a franchise defined for decades by frustration. That makes the line feel less like moralizing and more like survival advice. If you can’t guarantee triumph, you can still choose community. The quote functions as a brand of leadership that doesn’t bark orders; it sets a tone. In modern sports, where celebrity can tilt toward entitlement, Banks offers an older, sturdier kind of cool: be excellent, yes, but be human first.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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