"But it's cool working with female directors because I'm a girl, so you do relate to them more. You can talk to them about other stuff like clothes and all that"
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The interesting subtext is how quickly “relate” slides into the supposedly trivial: “clothes and all that.” On one level, it’s a relatable, human detail - the kind of small talk that builds trust. On another, it unintentionally exposes the narrow box women in Hollywood still get shoved into. Even when she’s talking about directors - power, authorship, the people steering the story - the example she reaches for is fashion. That’s not a personal failing; it’s cultural conditioning. Women’s camaraderie is often made legible through consumption and appearance, because that’s the language the industry readily accepts as “female.”
Context matters: Fanning came up in an era where female directors are more visible than in past decades, yet still outnumbered and over-scrutinized. Her quote quietly argues that representation isn’t only about fairness or optics; it’s about the everyday mechanics of work. When you can talk “about other stuff,” you’re also talking about safety, ease, and the unglamorous interpersonal glue that helps an actor take risks.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fanning, Elle. (2026, January 17). But it's cool working with female directors because I'm a girl, so you do relate to them more. You can talk to them about other stuff like clothes and all that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-its-cool-working-with-female-directors-78555/
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Fanning, Elle. "But it's cool working with female directors because I'm a girl, so you do relate to them more. You can talk to them about other stuff like clothes and all that." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-its-cool-working-with-female-directors-78555/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But it's cool working with female directors because I'm a girl, so you do relate to them more. You can talk to them about other stuff like clothes and all that." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-its-cool-working-with-female-directors-78555/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

