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Creativity Quote by Abbey Lincoln

"But I've been there and done that. I'm not trying to prove anything to anybody, and if somebody wants me to come, if they can afford what I ask, it's not as much as Madonna makes; not that I want what Madonna makes, but I was saying"

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There is a whole career’s worth of side-eye packed into that breathless, half-finished sentence. Abbey Lincoln is performing a familiar move of veteran artists: refusing the public’s demand for perpetual hunger. “Been there and done that” isn’t just a brag; it’s a boundary. She’s signaling that the old game - hustle, hype, reinvention for other people’s approval - no longer interests her. The point isn’t to be desirable; it’s to be paid.

Then she pivots to money with the bluntness musicians are often trained to avoid. Lincoln names the taboo directly: fees. Not “exposure,” not “the honor,” not the romantic suffering that critics love to drape over jazz. If you want her, you meet her terms. The subtext is labor politics: artistry is work, and a legacy doesn’t exempt you from the rent.

The Madonna comparison is doing double duty. It’s comic deflation and cultural critique: a jazz singer has to justify asking for professional compensation by referencing a pop megastar, because the market already decided whose art is “worth” millions. Lincoln’s quick self-correction - “not that I want what Madonna makes” - reads like strategic self-protection, aware that women who talk money get punished as greedy. The trailing “but I was saying” is the real tell: she’s cutting herself off mid-truth, negotiating how much candor the room can handle while still insisting on dignity.

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Lincoln, Abbey. (2026, January 17). But I've been there and done that. I'm not trying to prove anything to anybody, and if somebody wants me to come, if they can afford what I ask, it's not as much as Madonna makes; not that I want what Madonna makes, but I was saying. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-ive-been-there-and-done-that-im-not-trying-to-61444/

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Lincoln, Abbey. "But I've been there and done that. I'm not trying to prove anything to anybody, and if somebody wants me to come, if they can afford what I ask, it's not as much as Madonna makes; not that I want what Madonna makes, but I was saying." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-ive-been-there-and-done-that-im-not-trying-to-61444/.

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"But I've been there and done that. I'm not trying to prove anything to anybody, and if somebody wants me to come, if they can afford what I ask, it's not as much as Madonna makes; not that I want what Madonna makes, but I was saying." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-ive-been-there-and-done-that-im-not-trying-to-61444/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Abbey Lincoln (August 6, 1930 - August 14, 2010) was a Musician from USA.

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