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Love Quote by Kahlil Gibran

"But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls"

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Gibran’s genius here is that he sells autonomy as romance, smuggling a boundary lesson into language soft enough to pass as wedding scripture. “Spaces in your togetherness” sounds tender, almost decorative, until you notice how aggressively it resists the era’s default idea of love as fusion: marriage as merger, duty as proof, possession as devotion. He’s not describing distance as failure; he’s reframing it as the condition that keeps love breathable.

The imagery does the heavy lifting. “Winds of the heavens” turns separation into circulation, something cleansing and impersonal that no partner controls. It’s a quiet shot across the bow of jealousy and surveillance, long before we had read receipts and location sharing. If the wind can “dance between you,” then intimacy isn’t a sealed room; it’s an open-air practice. The line “make not a bond of love” is the sharpest blade in the bouquet. A bond is what you put on prisoners and assets. Gibran warns that love curdles when it becomes a mechanism of restraint.

Then he offers a better metaphor: “a moving sea between the shores of your souls.” Shores imply distinctness; the sea implies connection without erasure. Movement is the point. A sea can be calm or violent, but it stays alive by refusing stasis. Written in the early 20th century by a Lebanese-American poet steeped in mysticism, this is Gibran translating spiritual freedom into domestic advice: if you want devotion that lasts, stop trying to own it.

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TopicLove
Source"On Marriage", in The Prophet (Kahlil Gibran, 1923) — passage beginning "Let there be spaces in your togetherness..." (commonly quoted from the 'On Marriage' chapter).
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Kahlil Gibran

Kahlil Gibran (January 6, 1883 - April 10, 1931) was a Poet from Lebanon.

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