"But my experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with compassion"
About this Quote
The subtext pushes back on a particularly American impulse to treat difficulty as either a personal failure or an obstacle to be conquered with grit and a playlist. Grant’s emphasis on compassion suggests that what matters isn’t how stoically you endure, but what your endurance does to your attention: you start noticing other people’s bruises. Pain becomes a kind of unwanted education in nuance, patience, and the limits of judgment.
Context matters, too. As a musician whose public life has included acclaim, faith, and scrutiny, Grant speaks from a world where “being put together” is often part of the job. The quote quietly offers permission to be unfinished. It’s also a gentle rebuke to the unscarred certainty of people who think empathy is an opinion rather than a practice. The sentence doesn’t romanticize suffering; it reframes the aftermath as a widening of the heart.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grant, Amy. (2026, January 15). But my experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with compassion. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-my-experience-is-that-people-who-have-been-149452/
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Grant, Amy. "But my experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with compassion." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-my-experience-is-that-people-who-have-been-149452/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But my experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with compassion." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-my-experience-is-that-people-who-have-been-149452/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





