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Creativity Quote by Amy Grant

"But my experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with compassion"

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Amy Grant is doing something deceptively tricky here: she turns suffering from a private shame into a public credential. In a culture that loves the “comeback story” but gets squeamish about the actual darkness, she insists that pain isn’t just a detour on the way to resilience; it’s a generator of tenderness. The line lands because it’s not framed as moral superiority (“hardship makes you better”) but as an observed pattern: “my experience is that...” That small preface keeps the claim grounded, almost pastoral, and it also smuggles in authority. She’s not theorizing; she’s testifying.

The subtext pushes back on a particularly American impulse to treat difficulty as either a personal failure or an obstacle to be conquered with grit and a playlist. Grant’s emphasis on compassion suggests that what matters isn’t how stoically you endure, but what your endurance does to your attention: you start noticing other people’s bruises. Pain becomes a kind of unwanted education in nuance, patience, and the limits of judgment.

Context matters, too. As a musician whose public life has included acclaim, faith, and scrutiny, Grant speaks from a world where “being put together” is often part of the job. The quote quietly offers permission to be unfinished. It’s also a gentle rebuke to the unscarred certainty of people who think empathy is an opinion rather than a practice. The sentence doesn’t romanticize suffering; it reframes the aftermath as a widening of the heart.

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Grant, Amy. (2026, January 15). But my experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with compassion. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-my-experience-is-that-people-who-have-been-149452/

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Grant, Amy. "But my experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with compassion." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-my-experience-is-that-people-who-have-been-149452/.

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"But my experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with compassion." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-my-experience-is-that-people-who-have-been-149452/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Amy Grant (born November 25, 1960) is a Musician from USA.

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