"But Patsy, she was a great, great girl. And Brenda Lee is a wonderful person, and her mama, Grace. I've known those folks for years and years and years"
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The quote also slips in a telling hierarchy of values. “Great, great girl” and “wonderful person” put character on equal footing with artistry, maybe even above it. That’s the genre’s old moral economy: the songs may be dramatic, but the community wants its saints to be decent in the daylight. Including “her mama Grace” widens the frame from star to household, implying that fame didn’t erase roots, and that roots are part of the résumé.
There’s tenderness here, but also a subtle defense against the cold machinery of celebrity. Tillis speaks as if he’s guarding the dead and the living from being flattened into hit records and anecdotes. By insisting on “folks,” he pulls them back into the human scale, where greatness is measured not just by charts, but by how you carried yourself when the room got quiet.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tillis, Mel. (2026, February 18). But Patsy, she was a great, great girl. And Brenda Lee is a wonderful person, and her mama, Grace. I've known those folks for years and years and years. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-patsy-she-was-a-great-great-girl-and-brenda-63962/
Chicago Style
Tillis, Mel. "But Patsy, she was a great, great girl. And Brenda Lee is a wonderful person, and her mama, Grace. I've known those folks for years and years and years." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-patsy-she-was-a-great-great-girl-and-brenda-63962/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But Patsy, she was a great, great girl. And Brenda Lee is a wonderful person, and her mama, Grace. I've known those folks for years and years and years." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-patsy-she-was-a-great-great-girl-and-brenda-63962/. Accessed 23 Feb. 2026.



