"But say some, would you expose woman to the contact of rough, rude, drinking, swearing, fighting men at the ballot box? What a humiliating confession lies in this plea for keeping woman in the background!"
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Her key move is to treat “protection” as a confession. “What a humiliating confession” punctures the paternalistic pose: the plea to shelter women admits that men cannot govern themselves, and that the public sphere is arranged around that failure. It’s also a refusal of the sentimental trap in which women are framed as delicate virtues whose value depends on distance from ugliness. Rose refuses to let “respectability” be the price of exclusion.
Context sharpens the edge. Mid-19th-century suffrage debates often leaned on separate-spheres ideology: women belong in the home, men in the messy world of law and elections. Rose, a radical activist and veteran of abolitionist and freethought circles, treats that division as a political strategy, not a natural order. The ballot box becomes a test case for democracy itself: if citizenship requires entering a space defined by male intimidation, then democracy is less a right than a hazing ritual. Her rhetorical question forces readers to choose: reform the public square, or admit you prefer it brutal enough to keep women “in the background.”
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Rose, Ernestine. (n.d.). But say some, would you expose woman to the contact of rough, rude, drinking, swearing, fighting men at the ballot box? What a humiliating confession lies in this plea for keeping woman in the background! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-say-some-would-you-expose-woman-to-the-56677/
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Rose, Ernestine. "But say some, would you expose woman to the contact of rough, rude, drinking, swearing, fighting men at the ballot box? What a humiliating confession lies in this plea for keeping woman in the background!" FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-say-some-would-you-expose-woman-to-the-56677/.
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"But say some, would you expose woman to the contact of rough, rude, drinking, swearing, fighting men at the ballot box? What a humiliating confession lies in this plea for keeping woman in the background!" FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-say-some-would-you-expose-woman-to-the-56677/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.



