"But the cure for most obstacles is, Be decisive"
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The line reads like a therapeutic shove: stop negotiating with your own hesitation. Coming from George Weinberg, a psychologist known for challenging orthodoxies (and for naming homophobia as a clinical and cultural pathology), “Be decisive” isn’t a motivational poster; it’s a diagnosis of how people get stuck. The “obstacles” he’s pointing at are often less external barriers than internal procedural delays: rumination dressed up as prudence, fear laundered into “just being realistic,” the endless search for the perfect option that conveniently postpones the risk of choosing.
The subtext is blunt: indecision is not neutral. It’s an action that protects the self from accountability and from grief. Decide, and you might be wrong; don’t decide, and you can keep your identity intact as someone who could have been right. Weinberg’s phrasing also smuggles in a clinical insight about anxiety: uncertainty is a fuel source. Decisiveness doesn’t magically remove the problem, but it collapses the branching maze of “what ifs” into one path you can actually walk.
There’s a quiet ethical edge here too. “Most obstacles” suggests the world is not infinitely negotiable, but neither is it an alibi. Therapy often turns on this pivot: recognizing what you can’t control and then, without drama, choosing anyway. The cure isn’t certainty; it’s commitment. Decisiveness is less about bravado than about consenting to consequences, which is why it works.
The subtext is blunt: indecision is not neutral. It’s an action that protects the self from accountability and from grief. Decide, and you might be wrong; don’t decide, and you can keep your identity intact as someone who could have been right. Weinberg’s phrasing also smuggles in a clinical insight about anxiety: uncertainty is a fuel source. Decisiveness doesn’t magically remove the problem, but it collapses the branching maze of “what ifs” into one path you can actually walk.
There’s a quiet ethical edge here too. “Most obstacles” suggests the world is not infinitely negotiable, but neither is it an alibi. Therapy often turns on this pivot: recognizing what you can’t control and then, without drama, choosing anyway. The cure isn’t certainty; it’s commitment. Decisiveness is less about bravado than about consenting to consequences, which is why it works.
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