"But the dream is never forgotten, only put aside and never out of reach: Where once the dream connected boys with the world of men, now it reconnects men with the spirit of boys"
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The pivot - “Where once... now...” - is the engine. Thorn isn’t romanticizing childhood so much as diagnosing modern adulthood. If the dream used to be aspirational (boys reaching up), it has become recuperative (men reaching back). That reversal carries a quiet sadness: adulthood no longer feels like a destination worth celebrating on its own, so men borrow meaning from the “spirit of boys” - play, possibility, uncomplicated stakes - to refill what work, politics, and the churn of modern life drain out.
“Never out of reach” is the historian’s wink. He knows dreams don’t vanish; they get archived in habits and nostalgia, in ballparks and broadcasts, in the way grown people still talk about seasons like they’re chapters in their own lives. The subtext is not that men are childish, but that the culture has made boyishness a sanctuary. Thorn frames that sanctuary as tender, maybe even necessary, while also hinting at what’s been lost: a confident passage into “the world of men” that no longer convinces.
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| Topic | Nostalgia |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thorn, John. (2026, January 16). But the dream is never forgotten, only put aside and never out of reach: Where once the dream connected boys with the world of men, now it reconnects men with the spirit of boys. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-the-dream-is-never-forgotten-only-put-aside-84392/
Chicago Style
Thorn, John. "But the dream is never forgotten, only put aside and never out of reach: Where once the dream connected boys with the world of men, now it reconnects men with the spirit of boys." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-the-dream-is-never-forgotten-only-put-aside-84392/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But the dream is never forgotten, only put aside and never out of reach: Where once the dream connected boys with the world of men, now it reconnects men with the spirit of boys." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-the-dream-is-never-forgotten-only-put-aside-84392/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.








