"But the good news was that my elder sister refused to get married straight away and I couldn't get married until she did so I had the licence to go off and dream"
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The subtext is generational and gendered. “I couldn’t get married until she did” sketches a familiar hierarchy in many South Asian households: daughters move through life in ordered steps, with marriage as the central checkpoint. Nooyi isn’t romanticizing that system; she’s showing how it polices timing and possibility. Yet she also refuses a victim narrative. “Licence” is the key word: not freedom, not rebellion, but sanctioned leeway. She didn’t have to stage a showdown; the cultural logic itself granted her time.
Then comes the emotional pivot: “go off and dream.” In a business context, dreaming can sound soft, but here it’s strategic. Dreaming is what you do when you finally have time unclaimed by duty, when your future isn’t already scheduled. The context - a future corporate titan emerging from a world that tried to pre-plan her life - makes the sentence feel like an origin story written in one breath: constraint, loophole, imagination, escape velocity.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Nooyi, Indra. (n.d.). But the good news was that my elder sister refused to get married straight away and I couldn't get married until she did so I had the licence to go off and dream. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-the-good-news-was-that-my-elder-sister-56195/
Chicago Style
Nooyi, Indra. "But the good news was that my elder sister refused to get married straight away and I couldn't get married until she did so I had the licence to go off and dream." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-the-good-news-was-that-my-elder-sister-56195/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But the good news was that my elder sister refused to get married straight away and I couldn't get married until she did so I had the licence to go off and dream." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-the-good-news-was-that-my-elder-sister-56195/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






