"But there isn't any second half of myself waiting to plug in and make me whole. It's there. I'm already whole"
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The subtext is about agency. She’s not rejecting intimacy; she’s refusing the premise that intimacy is a repair job. “There isn’t any second half of myself” also signals a hard-earned adulthood: the recognition that longing can be real without being a diagnosis. The pivot - “It’s there” - is the crucial beat. She doesn’t argue her wholeness like a thesis; she asserts it like a boundary. Then the closer, “I’m already whole,” reads like a mantra learned the long way, after divorces, scrutiny, and an industry that profits from women’s insecurity.
Culturally, it’s an antidote to the “you complete me” era of romantic storytelling, and it anticipates the way contemporary selfhood gets framed: not as isolation, but as self-possession. Field’s intent isn’t to sound inspirational; it’s to redraw the terms. Love can add to a life, but it doesn’t get to grant a person legitimacy.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Field, Sally. (2026, January 16). But there isn't any second half of myself waiting to plug in and make me whole. It's there. I'm already whole. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-there-isnt-any-second-half-of-myself-waiting-121309/
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Field, Sally. "But there isn't any second half of myself waiting to plug in and make me whole. It's there. I'm already whole." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-there-isnt-any-second-half-of-myself-waiting-121309/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But there isn't any second half of myself waiting to plug in and make me whole. It's there. I'm already whole." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-there-isnt-any-second-half-of-myself-waiting-121309/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






