"But, there was a time when we all had a great thing going but one person just became very uncomfortable with it and he had to try to change it around to suit him more and then it suited no one else but him"
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The emotional engine here is “uncomfortable.” Not greed, not evil - discomfort. Young implies the turning point wasn’t a crisis of talent but a crisis of ego: success became intolerable unless it could be re-authored. The phrase “change it around to suit him more” captures a familiar arc in long-running acts, where credit, control, and identity harden over time. Creative evolution is normal; what Young condemns is unilateral revision. By the time it “suited no one else but him,” the language turns from band politics into a parable about collaboration: when one member optimizes the system for himself, the system stops being a system.
Contextually, this reads like a veteran musician speaking to fans who have watched a lineup or sound shift and want a villain. Young offers one - but with restraint. The subtext says: we didn’t fail to make the music; the social contract failed.
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| Topic | Broken Friendship |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Young, James. (n.d.). But, there was a time when we all had a great thing going but one person just became very uncomfortable with it and he had to try to change it around to suit him more and then it suited no one else but him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-there-was-a-time-when-we-all-had-a-great-90292/
Chicago Style
Young, James. "But, there was a time when we all had a great thing going but one person just became very uncomfortable with it and he had to try to change it around to suit him more and then it suited no one else but him." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-there-was-a-time-when-we-all-had-a-great-90292/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But, there was a time when we all had a great thing going but one person just became very uncomfortable with it and he had to try to change it around to suit him more and then it suited no one else but him." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-there-was-a-time-when-we-all-had-a-great-90292/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








