"But unfortunately, in my unrelenting drive to get back on that drum stool, the major casualty in all of it was that I really forgot about me"
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The specificity matters. “Drum stool” isn’t “the stage” or “my passion”; it’s the unglamorous piece of gear that symbolizes muscle memory, identity, and control. For Allen, whose story is inseparable from losing an arm and returning to Def Leppard as a drummer, the stool becomes both throne and trap. The subtext is that survival can become its own performance: the world applauds the comeback, so you keep feeding it, even when it’s eating you.
“I really forgot about me” lands because it’s almost childlike in phrasing, like he’s catching himself mid-confession. It’s not therapy-speak; it’s the vocabulary of someone realizing that willpower can crowd out selfhood. Culturally, it punctures the myth that resilience is automatically healthy. In a music industry that rewards endurance and punishes pause, Allen frames recovery as a double-edged feat: you can rebuild the body and still misplace the person living in it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Allen, Rick. (2026, January 16). But unfortunately, in my unrelenting drive to get back on that drum stool, the major casualty in all of it was that I really forgot about me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-unfortunately-in-my-unrelenting-drive-to-get-106559/
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Allen, Rick. "But unfortunately, in my unrelenting drive to get back on that drum stool, the major casualty in all of it was that I really forgot about me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-unfortunately-in-my-unrelenting-drive-to-get-106559/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But unfortunately, in my unrelenting drive to get back on that drum stool, the major casualty in all of it was that I really forgot about me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-unfortunately-in-my-unrelenting-drive-to-get-106559/. Accessed 7 Mar. 2026.





