"But we both came to the decision that the powerful thing is to go into your fear, walk in there with it, don't walk away from it, and to try to be true to it"
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The subtext is collaborative, too: “we both came to the decision” reads like a rehearsal-room pact, the kind made between scene partners, directors and performers, or even two people navigating a personal crisis. That matters because it shifts bravery from an individual virtue to a shared practice. Fear becomes workable material, something you can approach with someone else watching your back.
The most revealing phrase is “be true to it.” Not conquer it, not eliminate it, not “push through” it. Be true to it suggests listening for what fear is protecting: shame, desire, grief, the risk of being seen. In an acting context, it’s a thesis for great performances: the camera can smell avoidance. In a broader cultural moment that prizes “confidence” as branding, Tergesen argues for something less marketable and more human - staying with discomfort until it turns into clarity.
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| Topic | Fear |
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Tergesen, Lee. (n.d.). But we both came to the decision that the powerful thing is to go into your fear, walk in there with it, don't walk away from it, and to try to be true to it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-we-both-came-to-the-decision-that-the-99035/
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Tergesen, Lee. "But we both came to the decision that the powerful thing is to go into your fear, walk in there with it, don't walk away from it, and to try to be true to it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-we-both-came-to-the-decision-that-the-99035/.
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"But we both came to the decision that the powerful thing is to go into your fear, walk in there with it, don't walk away from it, and to try to be true to it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-we-both-came-to-the-decision-that-the-99035/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.








