"But we have been to the Pole, and we shall die like gentlemen. I regret only for the women we leave behind"
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"We shall die like gentlemen" is where the cultural machinery shows. Gentlemanliness here is less about manners than about discipline: no panic, no complaint, no visible unravelling. It’s a line addressed to posterity as much as to his men, a bid to control the narrative when the body can no longer be controlled. The insistence on dignity becomes a shield against the randomness of the Antarctic and against the humiliation of arriving second.
Then comes the pivot: "I regret only for the women we leave behind". On its face, it’s tenderness. Underneath, it’s a gendered distribution of suffering: men meet death with composure; women are assigned the emotional wreckage, the waiting, the grieving, the social aftermath. Scott softens the self-mythologizing with an appeal to domestic consequence, but he also reaffirms the era’s script in which heroic risk is male and the cost is quietly borne at home.
The brilliance, and the chill, is how the sentence makes tragedy legible as virtue. It doesn’t deny terror; it edits it into honor.
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| Topic | Mortality |
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Scott, Robert Falcon. (2026, February 20). But we have been to the Pole, and we shall die like gentlemen. I regret only for the women we leave behind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-we-have-been-to-the-pole-and-we-shall-die-18842/
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Scott, Robert Falcon. "But we have been to the Pole, and we shall die like gentlemen. I regret only for the women we leave behind." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-we-have-been-to-the-pole-and-we-shall-die-18842/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But we have been to the Pole, and we shall die like gentlemen. I regret only for the women we leave behind." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-we-have-been-to-the-pole-and-we-shall-die-18842/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






