"But when it came to jamming and writing songs like we used to, we realized Brandon was a huge spirit in the band. Who knew? It was just something we had to learn"
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The phrasing does quiet emotional work. “Jamming and writing songs like we used to” sets up the fantasy of return: the old chemistry, the old ease, the myth that creativity is a place you can simply drive back to. Then she undercuts it with an almost sheepish revelation: “Brandon was a huge spirit in the band. Who knew?” That little “Who knew?” is the pivot. It’s not ignorance so much as a confession of how collaboration hides its essential ingredients. Bands often narrate themselves as a single organism; Brickell admits the organism had an unseen organ.
Calling him a “huge spirit” is pointedly not technical. She doesn’t say he was the best player or the main writer; she’s talking about vibe, gravity, the intangible force that makes people take risks, finish ideas, stay in the room. It also gestures to absence as a teacher: you don’t fully clock someone’s role until the space they filled becomes loud.
“It was just something we had to learn” lands like hard-earned humility. No melodrama, no blame. Just the adult truth that creative history can’t be recreated without honoring the people who quietly made it possible.
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| Topic | Music |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brickell, Edie. (2026, January 17). But when it came to jamming and writing songs like we used to, we realized Brandon was a huge spirit in the band. Who knew? It was just something we had to learn. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-when-it-came-to-jamming-and-writing-songs-59024/
Chicago Style
Brickell, Edie. "But when it came to jamming and writing songs like we used to, we realized Brandon was a huge spirit in the band. Who knew? It was just something we had to learn." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-when-it-came-to-jamming-and-writing-songs-59024/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But when it came to jamming and writing songs like we used to, we realized Brandon was a huge spirit in the band. Who knew? It was just something we had to learn." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-when-it-came-to-jamming-and-writing-songs-59024/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

