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"But when you're a celebrity, you discover that you're no longer the pursuer, but the one being pursued. That's one of the disappointments I have had since becoming a single man"

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Grant’s line lands because it flips the celebrity fantasy into something faintly predatory. The usual story is that fame multiplies options; he’s pointing out that it also rearranges the power dynamics of desire. To “pursue” is to take a risk, to misread signals, to be rejected. It’s humiliating, but it’s also agency. Being “pursued,” by contrast, sounds flattering until you hear the implication: you become a target, a surface other people project onto, a prize whose value is pre-certified by the spotlight.

The phrasing is doing quiet work. “Discover” suggests this isn’t a complaint he’s nursed for years; it’s a rude awakening, like stepping into a room and realizing the rules changed while you were outside. “No longer” carries the sting of a status reversal: he didn’t choose a new role so much as have it assigned. And “one of the disappointments” is classic Grant understatement, a wry shrug that lets him criticize the system without seeming to whine about privilege.

The “single man” tag matters. In tabloid culture, a newly single celebrity isn’t a person; he’s a storyline. The subtext is about losing the ordinary anonymity that makes flirting mutual and mistakes survivable. What he mourns isn’t simply romantic scarcity, but the erosion of authentic selection: if attention is guaranteed, how do you trust any of it? Fame doesn’t just widen your dating pool; it poisons the water.

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Grant, Hugh. (2026, January 15). But when you're a celebrity, you discover that you're no longer the pursuer, but the one being pursued. That's one of the disappointments I have had since becoming a single man. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-when-youre-a-celebrity-you-discover-that-142578/

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Grant, Hugh. "But when you're a celebrity, you discover that you're no longer the pursuer, but the one being pursued. That's one of the disappointments I have had since becoming a single man." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-when-youre-a-celebrity-you-discover-that-142578/.

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"But when you're a celebrity, you discover that you're no longer the pursuer, but the one being pursued. That's one of the disappointments I have had since becoming a single man." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-when-youre-a-celebrity-you-discover-that-142578/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.

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Hugh Grant (born September 9, 1960) is a Actor from England.

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