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Daily Inspiration Quote by Kyra Sedgwick

"But when you're in something together, it's very hard to be objective and you're very subjective"

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Sedgwick’s line lands like a quiet confession from inside the machine: objectivity isn’t just difficult in close quarters, it’s structurally sabotaged by intimacy. The phrasing does a lot of work. “In something together” is deliberately vague, the kind of umbrella that covers marriages, creative collaborations, long-running casts, even workplaces that start to feel like families. She’s pointing at the social glue that makes teams function and, at the same time, makes honest judgment feel like betrayal.

The small stutter of logic in “hard to be objective and you’re very subjective” is the point. It’s not a tidy philosophical claim; it’s a lived one. Sedgwick isn’t trying to sound like a theorist of bias. She’s describing how proximity rewires perception: shared history turns into shared narrative, and shared narrative becomes loyalty. You stop evaluating a situation on its merits and start evaluating what your evaluation will do to the relationship.

Coming from an actress, the context sharpens. Sets are pressure cookers of dependence: you need other people to catch you, make you look good, keep the day moving. The same dynamics apply off-camera, too, especially when personal and professional lives overlap. Sedgwick’s intent feels less like cynicism than self-awareness: a reminder that “being fair” isn’t a solo virtue when the stakes are communal. The subtext is a warning and a bit of grace: if someone can’t be neutral while embedded in the story, that’s not only weakness - it’s often the cost of belonging.

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Kyra Sedgwick

Kyra Sedgwick (born August 19, 1965) is a Actress from USA.

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