"But you are alone. Yet I never tell what you are. And if your face lights up my world as no other can - well, this feeling too, when viewed as the mere psychologist has to view it, appears to be simply what all the other friends report about their friends"
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Then he pivots: “your face lights up my world.” It’s romantic in the old, earnest sense - a confession of dependency, of how another person reorganizes perception itself. But Royce won’t let the sentiment sit comfortably. He introduces “the mere psychologist,” a deliberately diminishing phrase. The “mere” signals impatience with the era’s rising confidence in scientific description of the mind. Under that gaze, even a world-altering attachment gets flattened into a common report: everyone says their friends make them feel this way.
That’s the subtextual duel: lived experience versus explanatory reduction. Royce isn’t denying psychology; he’s warning about what gets lost when we treat love, loyalty, and friendship as interchangeable data points. Contextually, it fits a late-19th/early-20th century philosophical project: defending the irreducibility of the personal and the ethical against the prestige of detached “objectivity.” The line works because it makes you feel the intimacy first, then forces you to watch it being standardized - a small heartbreak that doubles as an argument.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Royce, Josiah. (2026, January 18). But you are alone. Yet I never tell what you are. And if your face lights up my world as no other can - well, this feeling too, when viewed as the mere psychologist has to view it, appears to be simply what all the other friends report about their friends. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-are-alone-yet-i-never-tell-what-you-are-114/
Chicago Style
Royce, Josiah. "But you are alone. Yet I never tell what you are. And if your face lights up my world as no other can - well, this feeling too, when viewed as the mere psychologist has to view it, appears to be simply what all the other friends report about their friends." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-are-alone-yet-i-never-tell-what-you-are-114/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But you are alone. Yet I never tell what you are. And if your face lights up my world as no other can - well, this feeling too, when viewed as the mere psychologist has to view it, appears to be simply what all the other friends report about their friends." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-are-alone-yet-i-never-tell-what-you-are-114/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.





