"But you can catch yourself entertaining habitually certain ideas and setting others aside; and that, I think, is where our personal destinies are largely decided"
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As a mathematician-philosopher, Whitehead is allergic to mystical fate and equally suspicious of sheer willpower. He locates agency in selection. Not what ideas occur to you (you don’t control the mind’s pop-ups), but what you habitually entertain, as if thoughts are guests you keep inviting back. The subtext is anti-romantic and anti-therapeutic at the same time: you are not a victim of your impulses, and you are not saved by grand intentions. You become the person your attention keeps rehearsing.
Contextually, this sits comfortably inside Whitehead’s process philosophy: reality isn’t made of fixed substances but ongoing "becomings". Personal destiny, then, isn’t a prewritten script; it’s a drift produced by repeated micro-choices in perception and valuation. The line also reads like an early, more elegant cousin of modern "algorithmic feed" anxiety: the mind is a curation machine, and what you repeatedly privilege becomes your world. Whitehead’s sting is that this is precisely where responsibility lives: in the patterns you let harden unnoticed.
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Whitehead, Alfred North. (2026, January 18). But you can catch yourself entertaining habitually certain ideas and setting others aside; and that, I think, is where our personal destinies are largely decided. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-can-catch-yourself-entertaining-20087/
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Whitehead, Alfred North. "But you can catch yourself entertaining habitually certain ideas and setting others aside; and that, I think, is where our personal destinies are largely decided." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-can-catch-yourself-entertaining-20087/.
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"But you can catch yourself entertaining habitually certain ideas and setting others aside; and that, I think, is where our personal destinies are largely decided." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-can-catch-yourself-entertaining-20087/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







