"But, you know, sex is controversial, it just is and it always will be"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “But, you know” is a conversational softener that doubles as a trapdoor: it suggests the listener already understands, turning dissent into naivete. “It just is” reads like an actor’s version of fatalism, the kind that comes from watching audiences and headlines recycle the same panics. And “always will be” pulls sex out of the realm of policy fixes and into something older: power, shame, pleasure, control, and the stories we tell to manage them.
Contextually, this kind of remark often surfaces around film publicity, censorship debates, or interviews where an actor is asked to adjudicate taste: is a scene necessary, is it exploitative, why do we clutch pearls at nudity but not violence? Neeson’s subtext is that we stage these arguments because sex is where private life meets public rules. You can’t talk about it without talking about gender, religion, consent, commerce, and who gets to define “normal.” The controversy is the point, and pretending otherwise is the real fiction.
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| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Neeson, Liam. (2026, January 16). But, you know, sex is controversial, it just is and it always will be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-know-sex-is-controversial-it-just-is-and-92279/
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Neeson, Liam. "But, you know, sex is controversial, it just is and it always will be." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-know-sex-is-controversial-it-just-is-and-92279/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"But, you know, sex is controversial, it just is and it always will be." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/but-you-know-sex-is-controversial-it-just-is-and-92279/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






