"By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class"
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Domestic labor runs on the oldest scam in modern life: if you can frame a job as love, you can deny it labor’s basic rights. Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s line lands because it refuses the sentimental camouflage. She doesn’t romanticize motherhood; she unionizes it rhetorically, naming mothers and housewives as “workers” and then exposing the benefit they’re systematically denied: regular time off.
The phrase “By and large” is doing quiet but crucial work. It signals she knows exceptions exist, yet insists the pattern is structural, not anecdotal. “Regular time off” is equally pointed. It’s not asking for luxury or escape; it’s the most ordinary entitlement in wage work, the small ritual that tells a person their body and mind aren’t company property. Domestic labor, by contrast, is defined by perpetual availability: meals recur, mess returns, children wake at night, emotional needs don’t clock out. The home becomes a workplace with no closing hours, and the worker is expected to be grateful.
“Vacationless class” is the sting. Lindbergh borrows the language of class conflict - not to cosplay Marxism, but to underline how inequality can hide in plain sight when the economy is measured only in paychecks. Coming from a mid-century writer associated with a rarefied public life, the observation also reads as self-indictment: even in comfort, the gendered expectation of nonstop caretaking holds.
The intent isn’t just to complain; it’s to reclassify. Once you call it work, you can demand boundaries, rest, and shared responsibility - political concepts smuggled into a sentence that looks like plain truth.
The phrase “By and large” is doing quiet but crucial work. It signals she knows exceptions exist, yet insists the pattern is structural, not anecdotal. “Regular time off” is equally pointed. It’s not asking for luxury or escape; it’s the most ordinary entitlement in wage work, the small ritual that tells a person their body and mind aren’t company property. Domestic labor, by contrast, is defined by perpetual availability: meals recur, mess returns, children wake at night, emotional needs don’t clock out. The home becomes a workplace with no closing hours, and the worker is expected to be grateful.
“Vacationless class” is the sting. Lindbergh borrows the language of class conflict - not to cosplay Marxism, but to underline how inequality can hide in plain sight when the economy is measured only in paychecks. Coming from a mid-century writer associated with a rarefied public life, the observation also reads as self-indictment: even in comfort, the gendered expectation of nonstop caretaking holds.
The intent isn’t just to complain; it’s to reclassify. Once you call it work, you can demand boundaries, rest, and shared responsibility - political concepts smuggled into a sentence that looks like plain truth.
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