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Daily Inspiration Quote by Donna Shalala

"By putting people around me who will calm me down and slow me down and make sure I work through an issue"

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Power, in Donna Shalala's telling, isn’t a lone-ranger trait; it’s a managed environment. The sentence reads like an offhand self-help tip, but it’s really a governance philosophy disguised as personal habit. “Putting people around me” quietly admits what public leadership usually tries to hide: the job is too big for individual temperament. So you design a perimeter. You curate a human braking system.

The verbs do the work. “Calm,” “slow,” “make sure” are all constraints, and Shalala frames them not as weakness but as infrastructure. That’s the subtext: impulse is expensive in public life. A rushed decision can become a headline, a lawsuit, a policy disaster that outlives the person who made it. By emphasizing process - “work through an issue” - she signals competence as restraint, not theatrics. It’s an anti-charisma credo in an era that often confuses speed with strength.

Context matters because Shalala’s career ran through high-stakes institutions where a leader’s mood can ripple outward: federal bureaucracy, university administration, cabinet-level politics, crisis management. She’s describing a kind of emotional checks-and-balances that mirrors the democratic ideal itself. The best leaders aren’t the ones who never flare up; they’re the ones who build systems that prevent their flares from becoming policy.

There’s also an implicit rebuke to the cult of the “decisive” leader. Shalala argues, politely but firmly, that seriousness looks like deliberation - and that accountability begins with who gets invited into the room.

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Shalala, Donna. (n.d.). By putting people around me who will calm me down and slow me down and make sure I work through an issue. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/by-putting-people-around-me-who-will-calm-me-down-59256/

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Shalala, Donna. "By putting people around me who will calm me down and slow me down and make sure I work through an issue." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/by-putting-people-around-me-who-will-calm-me-down-59256/.

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"By putting people around me who will calm me down and slow me down and make sure I work through an issue." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/by-putting-people-around-me-who-will-calm-me-down-59256/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Donna Shalala (born February 14, 1941) is a Public Servant from USA.

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