"By the time we've made it, we've had it"
About this Quote
The line works because it doesn’t attack ambition head-on; it mocks the timing. The subtext is hedonic adaptation in tuxedo form: you climb, you arrive, you immediately normalize the new altitude, and the emotional payoff you were chasing has already moved. Forbes built a brand around celebrating winners and the machinery of winning, so the cynicism lands differently than if it came from a bohemian critic. It’s an insider’s confession, not a scold from outside the gates.
Context matters: Forbes’s era was defined by postwar prosperity, corporate hero worship, and a growing belief that identity could be purchased and displayed. In that world, "making it" is a moving target, constantly reset by the next acquisition, the next list, the next upgrade. The aphorism quietly suggests that the chase is the point, and the finish line is a mirage.
It’s also a warning disguised as a wink: if you’re building your life around arrival, you’re betting everything on a moment that, by design, can’t last.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Forbes, Malcolm. (2026, January 14). By the time we've made it, we've had it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/by-the-time-weve-made-it-weve-had-it-8889/
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Forbes, Malcolm. "By the time we've made it, we've had it." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/by-the-time-weve-made-it-weve-had-it-8889/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"By the time we've made it, we've had it." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/by-the-time-weve-made-it-weve-had-it-8889/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








