Life & Wisdom Quote by Edwin Louis Cole

Cole’s line has the clean snap of a proverb, but its real force is how aggressively it frames life as a contest you’re already in. “By use you possess gain” isn’t just encouragement; it’s a claim about ownership. You don’t merely improve through practice, you “possess” the results, as if discipline converts effort into property. Then comes the harsher mirror: “by disuse you decline and lose.” No neutrality, no coasting. In Cole’s worldview, standing still is a form of surrender.

The intent is plainly exhortational, rooted in self-help and motivational Christian masculinity writing that surged in late-20th-century America: character as a daily decision, habits as destiny, spiritual and practical growth as inseparable. The subtext is anxiety about drift. “Disuse” reads like moral negligence as much as skill atrophy, the quiet fear that comfort, passivity, or distraction will erode not only competence but identity.

What makes the quote work is its economy and its double accounting: gain/loss, possess/decline, use/disuse. It borrows the logic of the gym and the marketplace, where results are measurable and regression is costly. That structure turns time into a moral ledger: every day either compounds or defaults. It’s persuasive because it gives the listener a simple lever (use it) and a simple villain (neglect), even if real life is messier than the binary implies.

In context, Cole isn’t offering a nuanced psychology of burnout or systemic constraint; he’s offering a bracing rule for agency. The line’s appeal is its severity: it flatters you with control, then threatens you with consequences if you don’t exercise it.