"Can miles truly separate you from friends... If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?"
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The second question lands like a soft rebuke. If wanting is a form of presence, then longing isn’t merely lack; it’s an active location. That’s the subtextual move Bach makes throughout his work, especially in the Jonathan Livingston Seagull vein: the spirit is not only freer than the body, it’s the more truthful unit of measurement. You’re “already there” not because physical proximity doesn’t matter, but because love creates its own coordinates - memory, imagination, attention, choice.
Culturally, the line reads like late-20th-century American self-help spiritualism at its most elegant: portable meaning, internal sovereignty, faith in consciousness as a transportation system. It’s comforting, but not cheap. The comfort comes with an implicit standard: if you feel far from someone, maybe the real distance isn’t miles. Maybe it’s investment, courage, or the willingness to keep someone vivid when they’re not in the room.
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| Topic | Long-Distance Friendship |
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| Source | Evidence: ... Can miles truly separate you from friends ... If you want to be with someone you love , aren't you already there ? " Richard Bach We always have expectancy from the other Many times we have an expectancy of what others should be or what ... Other candidates (1) There's No Such Place as Far Away (Richard Bach, 1979)82.9% Can miles truly separate us from friends? If you want to be with Rae, aren't you already there?. Primary-source match... |
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"Can miles truly separate you from friends... If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?" FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/can-miles-truly-separate-you-from-friends-if-you-1337/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.














