"Can you make a mistake and miss your fate?"
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Its power is in the contradiction it smuggles in. “Fate” is supposed to be fixed, a plot already written. “Miss” suggests it’s a train you can arrive late to. Parker’s phrasing turns destiny into a scheduling problem, the way contemporary culture turns identity into a series of choices you’re graded on: the right partner, the right city, the right version of yourself. The subtext is panic masked as curiosity. If fate can be missed, then every decision becomes a referendum on your worth and every detour feels like a moral failure.
Read in the orbit of her most famous persona, it also sounds like a question asked after the party, when the glamour drops and the stakes sharpen. Romantic comedies and prestige TV alike sell the idea that there’s a “meant to be,” but Parker’s line tests the fine print: if the meant-to-be exists, why does it feel so easy to screw up?
It’s less a metaphysical inquiry than a cultural diagnosis. In an era of endless options, “fate” becomes the comforting fantasy that there’s still a correct answer. The question admits how badly we want that to be true.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Parker, Sarah Jessica. (2026, January 17). Can you make a mistake and miss your fate? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/can-you-make-a-mistake-and-miss-your-fate-58449/
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Parker, Sarah Jessica. "Can you make a mistake and miss your fate?" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/can-you-make-a-mistake-and-miss-your-fate-58449/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Can you make a mistake and miss your fate?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/can-you-make-a-mistake-and-miss-your-fate-58449/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



