"Can't you read? The score demands "con amore," and what are you doing? You are playing it like married men!"
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Then comes the twist of the knife: "like married men". It’s funny, cruel, and revealing. He’s not praising marriage; he’s invoking a stereotype of routine, dulled appetite, affection gone procedural. The subtext is that the musicians are treating love as a duty, not a charge. They’re giving him competent sound without the risk of feeling exposed. Toscanini is demanding the opposite: intensity that feels freshly chosen, not safely performed.
The line also captures a whole early-20th-century ethos of virtuoso discipline. Toscanini was famous for ferocious standards and for treating the composer’s intent as non-negotiable. Yet the jab admits something human: you can’t command love the way you command tempo. He tries anyway, using social comedy to shame the orchestra into emotional clarity. It’s rehearsal as theater: a flash of misogynistic, era-specific banter that still shows how conductors manufacture urgency - not by talking about feelings, but by making indifference embarrassing.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Toscanini, Arturo. (2026, January 15). Can't you read? The score demands "con amore," and what are you doing? You are playing it like married men! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cant-you-read-the-score-demands-con-amore-and-167007/
Chicago Style
Toscanini, Arturo. "Can't you read? The score demands "con amore," and what are you doing? You are playing it like married men!" FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cant-you-read-the-score-demands-con-amore-and-167007/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Can't you read? The score demands "con amore," and what are you doing? You are playing it like married men!" FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cant-you-read-the-score-demands-con-amore-and-167007/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







