"Cary Grant was wonderful to work with on stage. He would move downstage, so that as he looked at me the audience had to look at me, too. He knew a lot about the theater and how to move around. He was very secure"
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The subtext is about power without insecurity. In an industry built on attention scarcity, Wray is praising a rare form of authority: the kind that can redistribute focus because it doesn't fear losing it. "He was very secure" is doing extra work here. It implies she has known the opposite kind of leading man - the one who crowds a scene, upstages a partner, or mistakes dominance for charisma. Grant, she suggests, understood that the surest way to look like a star is to make the person across from you look essential.
Context matters: stage blocking is not screen acting; it is architecture. Wray is honoring his theater intelligence, but also his social intelligence. The move downstage isn't just technique. It's a professional ethic: control the room, then use that control to lift someone else.
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Wray, Fay. (2026, January 17). Cary Grant was wonderful to work with on stage. He would move downstage, so that as he looked at me the audience had to look at me, too. He knew a lot about the theater and how to move around. He was very secure. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cary-grant-was-wonderful-to-work-with-on-stage-he-58291/
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Wray, Fay. "Cary Grant was wonderful to work with on stage. He would move downstage, so that as he looked at me the audience had to look at me, too. He knew a lot about the theater and how to move around. He was very secure." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cary-grant-was-wonderful-to-work-with-on-stage-he-58291/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Cary Grant was wonderful to work with on stage. He would move downstage, so that as he looked at me the audience had to look at me, too. He knew a lot about the theater and how to move around. He was very secure." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cary-grant-was-wonderful-to-work-with-on-stage-he-58291/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.



