"Cats seem to go on the principle that it never does any harm to ask for what you want"

Felines exhibit a persistent confidence in voicing their needs, regardless of likely outcomes. They approach life boldly, making their desires known repeatedly and without self-consciousness. Whether it's for attention, food, or the coveted sunny spot on the sofa, cats ask, sometimes with a simple meow, at other times with an insistent paw or gaze. Their straightforwardness carries a wisdom: requesting something brings no penalty, and only through seeking do they stand a chance of receiving.

Such an attitude carries lessons for human behavior. Self-advocacy often inspires hesitation, wrapped up in fear of rejection, embarrassment, or imposing on others. Cats, unburdened by such concerns, demonstrate that asking does not constitute a loss of dignity or a breach of etiquette. If one request fails, they often simply try again later or adjust their method of asking. This lack of attachment to the result allows them to navigate the world with assurance and a certain calm expectation that their needs matter.

By observing feline behavior, one sees the importance of communicating wants and needs clearly. Healthy relationships, be they personal or professional, thrive when individuals articulate what matters to them. Silence diminishes opportunities, while asking, be it for support, clarification, or companionship, opens the door to possibility. Rejection may occur, but it remains no worse than the situation prior to the request. Cats intuitively understand this logic, moving forward without shame, disappointment quickly replaced by curiosity or pursuit of another avenue.

Ultimately, living in accordance with this principle builds resilience and even joy. The cat’s seeming audacity reflects an existential optimism: the world may well say yes, but only if one is bold enough to ask. Channeling such feline candor can foster a more open, confident, and fulfilling life.