"Cause at the end of the day, honestly, at the end of the day when you're in your death bed and that's it, I think it's the relationships you've had and the people that you've touched and the people that have touched you that matter"
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As an actress, Benz is implicitly arguing against the cultural logic that treats fame as intimacy. She doesn’t mention roles, success, or legacy-by-brand; she chooses contact. The key word is "touched", used twice, making the exchange reciprocal. It’s not "the people who loved you" or "who remember you" - it’s about impact that moves in both directions, a corrective to the celebrity myth of being adored at a distance. The line "and that's it" is blunt, almost impatient, refusing comforting metaphors about afterlives or destiny. There’s a subtle accountability baked in: if relationships are what matter, then the daily choices that shape them matter too.
The cultural context is a decade-plus of hustle culture and curated identity, where "networking" masquerades as friendship and attention gets mistaken for connection. Benz’s intent reads like a reset button: if you want meaning, stop treating people as an accessory to the story you’re telling about yourself.
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| Topic | Legacy & Remembrance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Benz, Julie. (2026, January 15). Cause at the end of the day, honestly, at the end of the day when you're in your death bed and that's it, I think it's the relationships you've had and the people that you've touched and the people that have touched you that matter. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cause-at-the-end-of-the-day-honestly-at-the-end-166087/
Chicago Style
Benz, Julie. "Cause at the end of the day, honestly, at the end of the day when you're in your death bed and that's it, I think it's the relationships you've had and the people that you've touched and the people that have touched you that matter." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cause-at-the-end-of-the-day-honestly-at-the-end-166087/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Cause at the end of the day, honestly, at the end of the day when you're in your death bed and that's it, I think it's the relationships you've had and the people that you've touched and the people that have touched you that matter." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/cause-at-the-end-of-the-day-honestly-at-the-end-166087/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











