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Marriage Quote by Simone Signoret

"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years"

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Marriage doesn not survive by force; it survives by accumulation. Simone Signoret, an actress who lived in the public glare of love stories that were never just private, rejects the fantasy that commitment is a padlock. "Chains" is the obvious villain here: control, obligation, guilt, the kind of loyalty that feels like captivity. It is also the language of institutions - legal, religious, social - that promise stability by tightening the screws. Signoret’s move is to swap that heavy metal for "threads", a metaphor that quietly changes the whole moral physics of marriage.

Threads are small, almost ignorable. They don’t announce themselves the way big romantic gestures do. They’re domestic and repetitive: rides to the doctor, shared jokes, making coffee the way the other person likes it, the tiny repairs you do to each other’s days. That’s the subtext: intimacy is maintenance, not spectacle. The line "hundreds of tiny threads" insists that durability comes from volume, not intensity. One grand vow can’t compete with a thousand minor acts of attention.

There’s also a subtle defense of freedom. Sewing is not shackling; it’s joining. Threads bind without erasing movement, and they can fray if neglected - a warning tucked inside the tenderness. Coming from a performer, it reads like backstage truth: what the audience applauds is the finale, but what keeps the show running is the invisible work, done nightly, without applause.

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Signoret, Simone. (2026, January 15). Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/chains-do-not-hold-a-marriage-together-it-is-116730/

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Signoret, Simone. "Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/chains-do-not-hold-a-marriage-together-it-is-116730/.

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"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/chains-do-not-hold-a-marriage-together-it-is-116730/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Simone Signoret (born March 25, 1921) is a Actress from Germany.

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