"Changes are not only possible and predictable, but to deny them is to be an accomplice to one's own unnecessary vegetation"
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Sheehy turns “change” from a motivational poster slogan into a moral ultimatum. The line hinges on a sly twist: it’s not that change happens, but that refusing to acknowledge it makes you complicit in your own stagnation. “Possible and predictable” yokes agency to inevitability. You can choose your response, but you don’t get to opt out of the weather.
The real sting is in “accomplice,” a word from crime reporting, not self-help. Denial isn’t framed as fear or confusion; it’s collaboration with a quieter offender: the self that prefers comfort over growth. Sheehy’s background matters here. As the author of Passages, she wrote at the intersection of psychology, journalism, and everyday life, insisting that adulthood is not a settled state but a series of negotiated upheavals. The quote carries that project’s core provocation: the “normal” life cycle is not stable, and treating it as stable is how people get blindsided by midlife, divorce, career shifts, and the slow redefinition of identity.
Then there’s the botanical insult: “unnecessary vegetation.” She doesn’t call it rest or recovery; she calls it plant-life, a life reduced to mere persistence. “Unnecessary” is the knife. Some seasons of stillness are required, even healing. Sheehy targets the kind that’s voluntary, anesthetized, and dressed up as realism. Her intent is less encouragement than indictment: if you’re stuck, check whether you’ve mistaken denial for prudence.
The real sting is in “accomplice,” a word from crime reporting, not self-help. Denial isn’t framed as fear or confusion; it’s collaboration with a quieter offender: the self that prefers comfort over growth. Sheehy’s background matters here. As the author of Passages, she wrote at the intersection of psychology, journalism, and everyday life, insisting that adulthood is not a settled state but a series of negotiated upheavals. The quote carries that project’s core provocation: the “normal” life cycle is not stable, and treating it as stable is how people get blindsided by midlife, divorce, career shifts, and the slow redefinition of identity.
Then there’s the botanical insult: “unnecessary vegetation.” She doesn’t call it rest or recovery; she calls it plant-life, a life reduced to mere persistence. “Unnecessary” is the knife. Some seasons of stillness are required, even healing. Sheehy targets the kind that’s voluntary, anesthetized, and dressed up as realism. Her intent is less encouragement than indictment: if you’re stuck, check whether you’ve mistaken denial for prudence.
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