"Charge forward with hope and get the best medical advice you can. Talk to your friends, neighbors, family, and together you attack it. We can't always control what happens to us, but we can always control how we react to it"
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The most revealing move is the shift from the individual to the collective: “Talk to your friends, neighbors, family, and together you attack it.” Illness can isolate; it turns your days into private negotiations with fear and paperwork. Urich pushes back against that isolation by making community part of the treatment plan. “Neighbors” is a telling inclusion - not just intimates, but the wider web of ordinary support that people often forget they’re allowed to ask for. The subtext is permission: you don’t have to perform stoic independence to be “strong.”
The closing line - control what happens versus control how we react - risks sounding like a motivational poster, but coming from an actor publicly associated with a cancer fight, it reads less like philosophy and more like coping mechanics. It’s not denying randomness; it’s reclaiming agency where it still exists: in decisions, in attitude, in reaching out. The intent is a blueprint for resilience that refuses both fatalism and magical thinking.
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| Topic | Hope |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Urich, Robert. (2026, January 16). Charge forward with hope and get the best medical advice you can. Talk to your friends, neighbors, family, and together you attack it. We can't always control what happens to us, but we can always control how we react to it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charge-forward-with-hope-and-get-the-best-medical-83564/
Chicago Style
Urich, Robert. "Charge forward with hope and get the best medical advice you can. Talk to your friends, neighbors, family, and together you attack it. We can't always control what happens to us, but we can always control how we react to it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charge-forward-with-hope-and-get-the-best-medical-83564/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Charge forward with hope and get the best medical advice you can. Talk to your friends, neighbors, family, and together you attack it. We can't always control what happens to us, but we can always control how we react to it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charge-forward-with-hope-and-get-the-best-medical-83564/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.






