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"Charity should begin at home, but should not stay there"

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Brooks slips a whole social program into a proverb-shaped sentence, and the craft is in the pivot: begin, but do not stay. He concedes the instinct most people already use to justify their giving - take care of your own first - then denies it the comfort of being an endpoint. The line is built like a moral trapdoor. If you nod along with the first clause, you are already committed to the second.

The intent is corrective. In the late 19th century, "charity begins at home" often functioned as a respectable alibi for parochialism, a way for the comfortable to keep compassion bounded by blood, neighborhood, or denomination. Brooks, a prominent American Episcopal preacher in an era of rapid urbanization, immigration, and widening class divides, is pushing against the tendency of middle-class benevolence to become self-congratulation: the warm feeling of virtue without the inconvenience of responsibility.

The subtext is theological and political at once. "Home" is not just a household; it is a moral training ground. Care that starts with family is meant to educate the heart, not to fence it in. Brooks implies that if your generosity cannot survive contact with strangers, it is not charity but loyalty, thrift, or tribe. By refusing to demonize the domestic, he avoids the backlash that pure universalism can trigger. He honors the local as the starting line, then insists the race goes outward.

It is a sentence designed for the pews but aimed at the street: a call to convert private virtue into public obligation.

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Brooks, Phillips. (2026, January 16). Charity should begin at home, but should not stay there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charity-should-begin-at-home-but-should-not-stay-120990/

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Brooks, Phillips. "Charity should begin at home, but should not stay there." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charity-should-begin-at-home-but-should-not-stay-120990/.

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"Charity should begin at home, but should not stay there." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charity-should-begin-at-home-but-should-not-stay-120990/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Phillips Brooks

Phillips Brooks (December 13, 1835 - January 23, 1893) was a Clergyman from USA.

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