"Charles Barkley, I used to watch him growing up. Then I met him. He was a big teddy bear"
About this Quote
Charles Barkley has long been coded as sports media's lovable antagonist: blunt, combative, happily unimpressed by decorum. Calling him "a big teddy bear" isn't just a compliment; it's a corrective to the caricature. Miller deploys a deliberately simple metaphor - not poetic, not precious - because the point is accessibility. She isn't trying to sound profound. She's trying to sound certain.
The subtext is also about power and safety. Barkley is physically imposing and culturally loud; describing him as soft reframes that size as protection rather than threat. Coming from a fellow athlete, the line reads like insider testimony: not starstruck, just amused by how wrong the public can be. It's a reminder that sports personas are often performance armor, and that the most reliable way to puncture them is the oldest one: actually meeting the person.
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| Topic | Sports |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Miller, Shannon. (2026, January 17). Charles Barkley, I used to watch him growing up. Then I met him. He was a big teddy bear. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charles-barkley-i-used-to-watch-him-growing-up-78193/
Chicago Style
Miller, Shannon. "Charles Barkley, I used to watch him growing up. Then I met him. He was a big teddy bear." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charles-barkley-i-used-to-watch-him-growing-up-78193/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Charles Barkley, I used to watch him growing up. Then I met him. He was a big teddy bear." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/charles-barkley-i-used-to-watch-him-growing-up-78193/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.



