"Childhood is frequently a solemn business for those inside it"
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The line punctures a sentimental myth: that childhood is a pastel interlude of lightness before “real life” begins. George Will, a journalist with a knack for flipping conventional wisdom into something cooler and sharper, reminds adult readers that the child’s world is not a rehearsal. It is the stage.
“Frequently” does quiet but crucial work here. Will isn’t claiming every child is miserable; he’s rejecting the adult habit of treating kids’ problems as cute, temporary, or automatically solvable. The phrase “solemn business” borrows the language of adulthood - business, duty, seriousness - then hands it to children, who are usually denied that moral and emotional gravity. The subtext: we condescend to children when we narrate their experiences as trivial, and that condescension becomes a kind of neglect.
The most pointed move is “for those inside it.” It draws a boundary between spectators and participants. Adults, standing outside childhood, can afford nostalgia; children can’t. They’re trapped in dependency, judged constantly, with little control over time, space, or reputation. A bad day at school, a humiliating moment, a tense household isn’t “small” if it’s your entire map of the world.
Contextually, the quote sits comfortably in late-20th-century culture wars about parenting, schooling, and moral formation - debates in which childhood is often treated as an ideological resource. Will’s sentence resists that, insisting on interiority: before childhood is a symbol, it’s lived.
“Frequently” does quiet but crucial work here. Will isn’t claiming every child is miserable; he’s rejecting the adult habit of treating kids’ problems as cute, temporary, or automatically solvable. The phrase “solemn business” borrows the language of adulthood - business, duty, seriousness - then hands it to children, who are usually denied that moral and emotional gravity. The subtext: we condescend to children when we narrate their experiences as trivial, and that condescension becomes a kind of neglect.
The most pointed move is “for those inside it.” It draws a boundary between spectators and participants. Adults, standing outside childhood, can afford nostalgia; children can’t. They’re trapped in dependency, judged constantly, with little control over time, space, or reputation. A bad day at school, a humiliating moment, a tense household isn’t “small” if it’s your entire map of the world.
Contextually, the quote sits comfortably in late-20th-century culture wars about parenting, schooling, and moral formation - debates in which childhood is often treated as an ideological resource. Will’s sentence resists that, insisting on interiority: before childhood is a symbol, it’s lived.
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| Topic | Youth |
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