Parenting & Family Quote by Honore de Balzac

Balzac flatters children with the sweetness of “dear and loving,” then uses that tenderness to smuggle in a harder proposition: for women, beauty is framed as a kind of primary currency, and its loss as a bereavement. The line works because it pretends to offer comfort while quietly tightening the trap. “Can alone console” is not an observation but an ultimatum: no vocation, friendship, intellect, or erotic reinvention makes the list. Only motherhood gets to redeem aging.

That’s classic Balzacian social accounting. In the world of The Human Comedy, people are priced, traded, and downgraded by the market of Parisian attention; women, especially, are appraised in youth and punished for time. The sentence carries the chill of a ledger: beauty depreciates; children are the annuity. Even the syntax suggests a transfer of value. If beauty is what grants a woman visibility and leverage, then children become the socially acceptable substitute when that leverage fades.

The subtext is not simply misogyny; it’s also diagnosis. Balzac is capturing how Restoration-era bourgeois society restricts a woman’s routes to significance. Consolation isn’t spiritual; it’s reputational. Children “console” because they keep a woman central in a household narrative after the salon has moved on.

Still, the line bites because it naturalizes a cultural arrangement as destiny. It offers a sentimental image of maternal love while normalizing the idea that a woman’s worth must be rerouted, never simply allowed to expand.