"Children don't need much advice but they really do need to be listened to and not just with half an ear"
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The phrase “really do need” does quiet work. It frames listening not as a soft, optional virtue but as a basic requirement, like food or sleep. And “not just with half an ear” is the tell: she’s targeting the modern posture of parental multitasking, the nod-and-hum while checking a screen, folding laundry, thinking about tomorrow. Half-listening is worse than silence because it teaches a child their inner life is an interruption, something to be tolerated until the adult can return to the real world.
Subtextually, Thompson is defending children as credible narrators of their own experience. Listening becomes a form of respect: you don’t have to agree with a child to take them seriously. It’s also a warning about power. Advice is top-down; listening is lateral. One reinforces hierarchy, the other builds trust.
In cultural context, this reads like a gentle rebuke to the era of parenting as management - optimization, “teachable moments,” constant problem-solving. Thompson’s point is almost embarrassingly simple, which is why it bites: the thing kids most need can’t be outsourced, hacked, or delivered as a lesson. It has to be paid in time and undivided presence.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thompson, Emma. (2026, January 17). Children don't need much advice but they really do need to be listened to and not just with half an ear. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/children-dont-need-much-advice-but-they-really-do-57444/
Chicago Style
Thompson, Emma. "Children don't need much advice but they really do need to be listened to and not just with half an ear." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/children-dont-need-much-advice-but-they-really-do-57444/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Children don't need much advice but they really do need to be listened to and not just with half an ear." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/children-dont-need-much-advice-but-they-really-do-57444/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









