"Children, I grant, should be innocent; but when the epithet is applied to men, or women, it is but a civil term for weakness"
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The intent is unmistakably feminist, but not narrowly so. Wollstonecraft is writing against an 18th-century culture that aestheticized female purity and delicacy while denying women education, economic independence, and full citizenship. Calling a grown woman “innocent” flatters her into staying ignorant; it dignifies inexperience as character. Men, too, can be “innocent” in this sense: any adult rewarded for not seeing, not questioning, not insisting. The word becomes a velvet muzzle.
Subtext: the Enlightenment’s talk of reason and rights is hollow if it rests on a gendered division of mental labor. “Innocence” is revealed as a social role, not an inner state - a performance that reassures those with power. Wollstonecraft’s provocation is that maturity demands friction: knowledge, desire, judgment, even a little moral risk. If innocence is the prize, adulthood is the punishment. She refuses that bargain, insisting that strength - intellectual and ethical - is the only respectable alternative to being politely diminished.
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"Children, I grant, should be innocent; but when the epithet is applied to men, or women, it is but a civil term for weakness." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/children-i-grant-should-be-innocent-but-when-the-7486/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.








