"Choose an author as you choose a friend"
About this Quote
The subtext is selective and faintly paternal. Helps wrote as a historian and public intellectual in a culture that treated print as a social technology with risks and duties. Friendship, in his world, implied discernment, loyalty, and reputation; the wrong friend could corrupt you, compromise your standing, or waste your time. Transfer that logic to reading and the quote becomes a form of moral hygiene: don't consort with minds that make you smaller, crueler, more frivolous, more easily led.
It also flatters the reader into agency. You're not a passive consumer of "content"; you're curating a circle. The line works because it reframes taste as ethics without sounding preachy. "Choose" carries the burden: not "find", not "stumble upon", but actively decide. And by pairing author with friend, Helps nudges us to ask the kind of questions we ask in real relationships: Do they sharpen you or just feed your worst instincts? Do they argue honestly? Are they generous with complexity?
In an era of algorithmic recommendation, the advice lands with fresh sting: your feed is a friend group you didn't quite choose. Helps is urging you to take that choice back.
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| Topic | Writing |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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Helps, Arthur. (2026, January 18). Choose an author as you choose a friend. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/choose-an-author-as-you-choose-a-friend-21937/
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Helps, Arthur. "Choose an author as you choose a friend." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/choose-an-author-as-you-choose-a-friend-21937/.
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"Choose an author as you choose a friend." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/choose-an-author-as-you-choose-a-friend-21937/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.










