"Choose silence of all virtues, for by it you hear other men's imperfections, and conceal your own"
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The subtext is sharply unsentimental about how reputations are made. Speech is self-incrimination; talk supplies the world with your tells, your contradictions, your vanity. Silence, by contrast, turns you into an observer, even a judge. It also makes other people do the work: in the discomfort of your quiet, they fill the space with their own disclosures, their little cruelties, their careless boasts. Shaw is pointing to an asymmetry of power in conversation: the less you reveal, the more you can read.
Context matters. Shaw wrote in a culture obsessed with propriety, where public virtue often meant private maneuvering, and where the theatre - his theatre especially - thrived on the gap between what characters say and what they are. The line works because it refuses to romanticize moral life; it treats "virtue" as performance management. In typical Shavian fashion, the sting is that the advice is probably correct, and still faintly disgusting.
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| Topic | Humility |
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Shaw, George Bernard. (2026, January 15). Choose silence of all virtues, for by it you hear other men's imperfections, and conceal your own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/choose-silence-of-all-virtues-for-by-it-you-hear-35027/
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Shaw, George Bernard. "Choose silence of all virtues, for by it you hear other men's imperfections, and conceal your own." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/choose-silence-of-all-virtues-for-by-it-you-hear-35027/.
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"Choose silence of all virtues, for by it you hear other men's imperfections, and conceal your own." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/choose-silence-of-all-virtues-for-by-it-you-hear-35027/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.












