"Civility is not about being meek. It’s about being strong enough to listen and to lead"
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The subtext is a quiet rebuttal to our era’s dopamine politics, where interruption reads as dominance and cruelty gets mislabeled as authenticity. Klobuchar’s move is to redefine power as self-control plus attention. “Strong enough to listen” treats listening not as passive reception but as discipline: you can absorb a challenge without panicking, you can take in complexity without performing outrage. Then she pairs listening with “lead,” insisting that leadership isn’t theater; it’s consequence. You earn authority by proving you can process other people’s realities and still make decisions.
Context matters. As a centrist-leaning Democrat who has branded herself as pragmatic and bipartisan, Klobuchar is selling a governing ethic that competes with both MAGA-style belligerence and the online-left suspicion of decorum. She’s also speaking from within institutions where “civility” can feel like a procedural speed bump. The intent, then, is not to romanticize politeness but to claim that democratic stamina looks like patience under pressure - and that the hardest thing in politics may be staying human while holding power.
Quote Details
| Topic | Leadership |
|---|---|
| Source | Book: The Senator Next Door: A Memoir from the Heartland (2015) |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Klobuchar, Amy. (2026, January 30). Civility is not about being meek. It’s about being strong enough to listen and to lead. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/civility-is-not-about-being-meek-its-about-being-184781/
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Klobuchar, Amy. "Civility is not about being meek. It’s about being strong enough to listen and to lead." FixQuotes. January 30, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/civility-is-not-about-being-meek-its-about-being-184781/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Civility is not about being meek. It’s about being strong enough to listen and to lead." FixQuotes, 30 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/civility-is-not-about-being-meek-its-about-being-184781/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









