"Civilization is a method of living, an attitude of equal respect for all men"
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The phrase “attitude of equal respect” is doing double duty. “Attitude” sounds soft, even personal, but in Addams’s world it has institutional consequences: settlement houses, labor reforms, public health, education, protections for children. She’s smuggling a radical demand into a seemingly modest moral claim. Respect isn’t sentimental; it’s structural.
Context matters. Addams was writing and organizing in the thick of U.S. industrialization and urban migration, when elites congratulated themselves on progress while slums, sweatshops, and racial exclusion were treated as inevitable byproducts. Her definition is a rebuke to that bargain. It also challenges the paternalism that can haunt reform movements: charity that keeps the giver on a pedestal. Equal respect means reciprocity, proximity, and the uncomfortable idea that the people being “helped” are co-authors of the social contract, not its beneficiaries.
It works because it redefines the scoreboard. Civilization isn’t what a nation claims; it’s what it practices.
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