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Life's Pleasures Quote by Judith Viorst

"Close friends contribute to our personal growth. They also contribute to our personal pleasure, making the music sound sweeter, the wine taste richer, the laughter ring louder because they are there"

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Friendship, in Judith Viorst's hands, isn’t a sentimental accessory; it’s a sensory amplifier and a moral workout. The line moves on two tracks: close friends make you better, and they make being alive feel better. That pairing is the quiet argument. We often tolerate the self-improvement pitch because it sounds virtuous, but Viorst knows virtue alone doesn’t sell. So she braids growth with pleasure, insisting the relationship that challenges you is also the one that sweetens the room.

Notice how she avoids grand abstractions and goes straight for the body: music, wine, laughter. These aren’t metaphors for “meaning” so much as proof that companionship changes perception. The subtext is almost radical in its simplicity: joy is not purely internal. Your taste, your hearing, even your sense of humor can be social. It’s a rebuttal to the cult of self-sufficiency, delivered without scolding.

Viorst’s context matters. As a writer associated with clear-eyed emotional realism (and not averse to puncturing adult pretensions), she’s addressing a modern adult condition: friendships squeezed by work, family, and the idea that intimacy must be romantic to count. By foregrounding “close friends,” she elevates chosen bonds as central infrastructure, not optional garnish.

The craft is in the escalation: sweeter, richer, louder. The syntax mimics the experience of company itself, building momentum, widening the grin. It lands because it doesn’t demand you idealize friends; it simply reminds you what they do to the world when they’re in it.

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Viorst, Judith. (2026, January 16). Close friends contribute to our personal growth. They also contribute to our personal pleasure, making the music sound sweeter, the wine taste richer, the laughter ring louder because they are there. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/close-friends-contribute-to-our-personal-growth-107323/

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Viorst, Judith. "Close friends contribute to our personal growth. They also contribute to our personal pleasure, making the music sound sweeter, the wine taste richer, the laughter ring louder because they are there." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/close-friends-contribute-to-our-personal-growth-107323/.

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"Close friends contribute to our personal growth. They also contribute to our personal pleasure, making the music sound sweeter, the wine taste richer, the laughter ring louder because they are there." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/close-friends-contribute-to-our-personal-growth-107323/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Judith Viorst

Judith Viorst (born February 2, 1931) is a Author from USA.

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