"Coaching helps you take stock of where you are now in all aspects of your life, and how that compares to where you would like to be"
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The subtext is gently confrontational. “Where you are now” suggests you may be living on autopilot, mistaking busyness for direction. By insisting on “all aspects of your life,” MacDonald pushes against the culturally convenient siloing of self-improvement: career hacks over mental health, productivity over relationships, wellness over politics. Coming from an activist, that breadth reads like a clue. Activism trains people to map systems, identify gaps between stated values and lived reality, and then build strategies. She imports that same diagnostic mindset into personal life: values vs. behavior, intention vs. outcome.
The comparison to “where you would like to be” also dodges one trap of self-help rhetoric: the fantasy self. “Would like” is modest, human-scaled; it makes desire sound legitimate without turning it into an Instagram destiny. Coaching here becomes a bridge between aspiration and action, but the bridge begins with an uncomfortable inventory. The cultural context is a moment saturated with optimization talk and burnout. MacDonald’s line works because it reframes coaching as clarity work: not becoming someone new, but reckoning with the distance between who you claim to be and how you’re actually living.
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MacDonald, Elaine. (2026, January 14). Coaching helps you take stock of where you are now in all aspects of your life, and how that compares to where you would like to be. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/coaching-helps-you-take-stock-of-where-you-are-141479/
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MacDonald, Elaine. "Coaching helps you take stock of where you are now in all aspects of your life, and how that compares to where you would like to be." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/coaching-helps-you-take-stock-of-where-you-are-141479/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Coaching helps you take stock of where you are now in all aspects of your life, and how that compares to where you would like to be." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/coaching-helps-you-take-stock-of-where-you-are-141479/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.




