"Come, let us have some tea and continue to talk about happy things"
About this Quote
Potok, a novelist who spent his career writing about Jewish life, tradition, and the bruising costs of belonging, understood how communities use ordinary gestures to hold the unspeakable. Tea here reads as a cultural technology: a pause that isn’t denial so much as a controlled retreat. “Continue to talk” implies the conversation has already been going on, maybe circling something raw. The line doesn’t promise solutions; it promises stamina. Happy things are not presented as truth, but as a necessary category to keep the self intact.
The subtext is that joy can be a discipline. In families and faith communities shaped by history’s weight, “happy things” can function like a sanctioned breathing space, a way to reaffirm life without pretending suffering never arrived. Potok’s intent feels pastoral: to keep people in relationship, to keep the room from collapsing under whatever has been said. Tea is the hinge between endurance and tenderness, suggesting that sometimes the most radical act is simply choosing, together, to keep talking.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Verified source: The Chosen (Chaim Potok, 1967)
Evidence: Come. Let us have some tea and continue to talk about happy things.. Primary source appears to be Chaim Potok’s novel The Chosen, first published in 1967. The line occurs in dialogue (Reuven’s father speaking). I was able to verify the exact wording in an online full-text copy; however, I could not reliably verify the original 1967 first-edition page number from an authoritative scan/preview in this search session because page numbers vary by edition/format. Secondary quote sites frequently cite later reprints (e.g., Simon & Schuster 2016) with differing page numbers, which should not be treated as evidence of first publication pagination. Other candidates (1) Tea Wisdom (Aaron Fisher, 2012) compilation95.0% ... Come, let us have some tea and continue to talk about happy things. —Chaim Potok Even from dawn to nightfall as y... |
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MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Come, let us have some tea and continue to talk about happy things." FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/come-let-us-have-some-tea-and-continue-to-talk-44552/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.










