"Communication is about being effective, not always about being proper"
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The intent is pragmatic, almost managerial: if your message didn’t land, your polish is irrelevant. That’s a quiet rebuke to corporate-speak, where meetings are stuffed with “touch base” and “circle back” precisely because no one wants to name what’s broken. “Effective” implies measurable impact: the plan got understood, the customer felt heard, the team knew what to do next. “Proper” implies compliance with a social code that can be weaponized - used to dismiss whistleblowers as “not constructive,” or to punish directness as “tone issues.”
The subtext is power-aware: the people who most insist on propriety often already control the room. For everyone else, effectiveness may require plain speech, uncomfortable specificity, or emotional honesty. Bennett isn’t arguing for bluntness as a virtue; he’s arguing against politeness as a hiding place. In the age of email threads, Slack pings, and brand-safe messaging, it’s a reminder that clarity is not a style choice. It’s an ethical one.
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